HE WORKS, SHE WORKS

But What Different Impressions They Make....


The family picture is on HIS desk:   
He's a responsible family man  
 

HIS desk is cluttered:  
He's obviously a hard worker and a busy man 

HE'S talking with co-workers:  
He must be discussing the latest deal. 

HE'S not at his desk:  
He must be at a meeting.  

HE'S not in the office  
He's meeting customers.  

HE'S having lunch with the boss:  
He's on his way up.  

The boss criticized HIM:  
He'll improve his performance.  

HE got an unfair deal:  
Did he get angry?  

HE delegates tasks: 
He manages efficiently. 
    

HE'S getting married:  
He'll get more settled.  

HE'S having a baby:  
He'll need a raise.  

 
HE'S going on a business trip:  
It's good for his career  

HE'S leaving for a better job:  
He recognizes a good opportunity.  
 


The family picture is on HER desk: 
Hmm, her family will come before her career. 

HER desk is cluttered: 
She's obviously a disorganized scatterbrain. 

SHE'S talking with co-workers 
She must be gossiping. 

SHE'S not at her desk: 
She must be in the ladies' room. 

SHE'S not in the office: 
She must be out shopping. 

SHE'S having lunch with the boss: 
They must be having an affair. 

The boss criticized HER: 
She'll be very upset. 

SHE got an unfair deal: 
Did she cry? 

SHE delegates tasks:
She makes everyone else do her work for her. 

SHE'S getting married: 
She'll get pregnant and leave. 

SHE'S having a baby: 
She'll cost the company money in maternity benefits. 

SHE'S going on a business trip: 
What does her husoand say? 

SHE'S leaving for a better job: 
Women are undependable 
 

From Paths to Power by Natasha Josefowitz Ph.D.  Copyright 1980.